Who doesn’t want to be in love? Love is great! Love makes you feel alive. Your heart beats faster, which im guessing makes your metabolism faster or something so it makes you skinnier, maybe even just because you feel better… regardless, love makes you feel.. GOOD.
But to all those girls out there who just want to be in love, and its all you can think about.. Consider this: Are you IN LOVE with the guy who is sitting in front of you? Or you in love with the idea of being in love with this person or just in general?
I’m not saying that this guy, or girl - whatever your preferences are - isn’t a viable candidate for future … in loveness…. but if you’re the type of person, that is LOOKING for being in love, focus on why you’re with that person. Look deep inside yourself, because maybe, just maybe you’ll catch yourself by surprise…
I used to think I needed to be in love with some one… not even that. I needed to love someone. Because to me, there is a HUGE difference between loving a guy or girl romantically, and being IN love with them. But I realized, I needed to love, being myself. I had to search for myself, and the guy would come with it on his own. I don’t have to look for a girl or a guy, I have to look for myself.
Its kind of like looking for store… You look for what you like… Maybe you go to the Korean or Japanese market. Maybe you like sandwiches, so you go to the deli. Whatever the case, you find the store that YOU like, and the food will come with it, because it’s the food that comes with it because it pertains to the store. Your man or woman will come when you find yourself. Get into the things you like, because the people that like the same things will find you. It’s like life sorts out all the people by category.. But if you dive into a sea of people and try to find a match, its a hell of a lot harder…
…just some thoughts(: